Leave your Car seat in the car challenge ends today!! Post a comment and say how you did!

July 9th, 2009

So I ended up switching to a convertable rear facing seat to make it easier. I have to say after the first couple weeks it really wasn’t a big deal. There were a couple times at first with the removable infant seat that I took him out in it. I do tend to notice more and more how uncomfortable the people carrying the infant care seats seem to be. I was concerned at the begining about the heat of the summer, but it really wasn’t an issue. It was hot, but we tended to just be inside mostly and only outside in the cooler parts of the day. Just wanted to post to say it is done. We used a variety of carriers mostly a ring sling and a wrap pretied to make it quicker.Thanks for everyone who participated I will do the drawing 07/18. So far it looks like the odds are pretty good:)

So post a comment and say how you did to be entered into the $100 gift certificate drawing!

Beco Butterfly video instructions

June 30th, 2009



Newborn and breastfeeding in the carrier below

Let’s give something back…..(NEW Custom Beco’s)

June 5th, 2009

A few weeks ago my 4 year old daughter received a letter from the Philippines. It was totally unexpected and we weren’t sure what it was. After we opened it we were blessed. Our family each year participates in the Samaritan’s Purse Operation Christmas Child Shoebox campaign. For this we take a shoebox and fill it with small gifts for a child. Dolls, hair clips, toothbrushes and toothpaste, fun soaps etc all go in. These boxes are then collected and distributed all over the world to children in need. We are also allowed to include a note with our address in case the child would like to write a thank you note. This is not expected as many of the children are illiterate or too young to write. Or many are just without the means to do so. We have done this for a few years and have never received any correspondence. So here it was a letter and photo from a 5 year old girl living in the Philippines.
Her name is Juvie and she will be 6 years old in November. She wrote to thank us and ask us to write back. To be able to qualify to receive these shoeboxes your situation has to be pretty poor. So I was thinking that even in this tough economy we still have it pretty good comparitively speaking. There are so many people who are with out even the bare essentials for living.
So we are announcing the release of not one, but two exclusive, Custom, Limited edition Beco Butterfly II Designs that will help to benefit some of those who need it most. For each purchase of a Hope or Sam Beco,Frogmama will make a donation to Samaritan’s Purse (many people know them for their work with the Operation Christmas Child shoeboxes) Scroll down for the new pictures!!
You also have an active part in this as well. When you make your purchase you will choose how your donation will be spent. It can either go towards a water filter, preventing Malaria, life saving food, a brood of chicks, or a 1 week supply of food for a nursing mother or young child. In addition your normal Beco purchase would qualify for free shipping, If you choose, at checkout you can select to pay for shipping by selecting the “orders under $100″ option, if you do this Frogmama will donate the funds from shipping to your selection as well.
There are some video clips below that show where these funds will be going. For additional information on Samaritian’s Purse or to make another gift please visit www.samaritianspurse.org

Water Filters
Looking for a gift that keeps on giving? Consider a household water filter like the ones Samaritan’s Purse has installed for more than 70,000 families worldwide. These easy-to-maintain filters require no chemicals and no electricity—just a natural process that removes harmful microorganisms and pollutants from water collected at a dirty pond or lake. And it only costs $100 to manufacture a filter that lasts a lifetime. One father of eight said, “We used to get sick regularly. Now that we have the water filter, our health has improved. It is wonderful to have clean, cool water to drink.” Your gift to our water filter projects will provide “a cup of cold water” in Jesus’ Name (Matthew 10:42).

A Brood of Chicks
There’s nothing quite like the hatching of baby chicks to remind us of the wonder of new life. In many impoverished areas, these fuzzy creatures provide Christians with an effective way to meet their neighbor’s physical needs while sharing how they too can have “new life with Christ” (Colossians 3:1, NLT). A brood of chickens, ducks, or other poultry can provide enough eggs to feed a family, with some left over to sell. For only $25, we can provide a starter brood of 24 chicks.

Prevent Malaria
Over a million people die from this mosquito-borne illness each year, most of them children and pregnant women. For just $10, Samaritan’s Purse can provide a sleeping net treated with a natural insecticide to kill mosquitoes. We also equip local Christians to train remote communities in ways to prevent the disease.

Feed a Hungry Baby for a Week
A happy baby snuggles in his mother’s lap as she spoon-feeds him nutritious porridge. When she brought her son to our feeding center two weeks before, he was too weak to do more than cry. He is one of the fortunate ones. Malnutrition claims millions of young lives each year and leaves many others with physical and mental disabilities. Your gift of just $9 can help Samaritan’s Purse feed a young child or a nursing mother for a week. These life-saving projects present a powerful witness for our compassionate Savior. “For He will deliver the needy who cry out, the afflicted who have no one to help” (Psalm 72:12, NIV).

Life-Saving Food
Just $35 can mean the difference between life and death for a family threatened by starvation. That’s the average cost of transporting and distributing a month’s worth of food in an area devastated by war, famine, or disaster. Each year, Samaritan’s Purse delivers tons of grain, cooking oil, and other staples to hundreds of thousands of desperate people all over the world. As their hunger is satisfied, their grateful hearts are open to hear about the gracious Lord who “fills the hungry with good things” (Psalm 107:9, NIV).


The Hope Beco fabric has cheerful flowers, small houses, and birds on a cream background. I think this is symbolic of the hope that many people have when their homes are small and their possessions are few. And also the hope that is given when they are gifted with a group of chickens to raise for food and extra income.


The Sam Beco is bright and colorful as well, symbolic of the happiness and cheer brought through the Samaritans Purse organization.
Both are on black straps.
Click here to order one today for early July Shipping!!

Win a $100 Frogmama Gift Certificate!!!

May 22nd, 2009

Want to win a $100 Gift Certificate to Frogmama- Join the “Leave your car seat in the Car” challenge!!
To qualify:
- you must have a baby who fits in a removable rear facing infant seat, and leave the car seat in the car, not carrying your baby around in it for a 30 day period.
OR
- Any baby under 1 year and in addition to leaving the car seat in the car do not use a stroller/ walker/bouncey seat or exersaucer for 30 days

-Read the blog post below about why this even matters:)
- you must leave a comment on this post saying your child’s age and that you are joining on or before Monday June 8th 2009.
- You can also subscribe to the frogmama newsletter as I will be sending out updates on my progress as well as notices of sales and specials.
We will run the challenge from 06/09 until 07/09
To Qualify to win- I will write a new post on 07/09 announcing the end of the contest. If you completed the challenge you must leave a comment before 07/16. A winner will be randomly choosen from the list of those who both began and ended and posted to say so.
So after posting to join all you need to do is leave your car seat in the car. Pretty simple right:)
Meaning- don’t carry your baby in the infant car seat, don’t leave them in it when you get home or to your destination. This takes some planning, but it CAN BE DONE!!:)
And so that you don’t go it alone- know that I am right there with you, with my newest little one as well leaving my seat in the car.
A couple exceptions:
Perfection is not required:) You will be allowed 3 days during this period of using the infant seat outside the car.
Yes I realize it is summer:) Here in california it is already really warm. It is fine to take your car seat out of the car and store it in the house so it is cooler to put your baby into. That is also fine when shopping, visiting friends etc, you can take the car seat out of the car and inside, just not with baby in it:)
Also you may want to think about parking in the shade, leaving your car windows cracked, placing a towel in the infant seat to keep things a little cooler.
** Please be careful in the heat with your baby. Watch carefully when baby is in the infant car seat, carrier or even in your arms for any signs that baby is getting overheated.
The goal of this contest is to make us think twice about how often we are leaving our babies in their seats and strollers and to promote holding your baby and babywearing. If you are in need of a carrier- check out the great ones Frogmama.
You may also want to consider a second carrier just to leave in the car so you are never without one. There are some great deals on babycarriers and great advice as well in the forum at www.thebabywearer.com.
I think that is it- Please feel free to post any questions as well or email them to me
Thanks and happy babywearing/babyholding

Leave your car seat in the car challenge

May 22nd, 2009

“Well duh” you say, “don’t care seats stay in the car?” “Well yes,” I respond, “they should ,and that is the whole point.”

The seats I am refering to are the infant car seats. You know the ones the “baby buckets” they are called. The ones that pop in and out of the car, in and out of the stroller, are carried by an awkward cumbersome handle, can be placed in the frame when eating out, can be used as a baby seat or rocker when placed on the ground. All the while forgetting that these are “car” seats not multi purpose parenting devices.

I read a great article a while back about this very thing, the overuse and abuse of something that, not harmful when used properly as a car seat, can can cause lasting harm when overused. In this article titled Car Seats are for Cars, By Catherine McKenzie. The author mentions a few problems caused by overuse of car seats. The first is called Plagiocephaly, or flattening of the scull. It is caused by having constant pressure on one area of the scull like what happened to an infants head for prolonged periods in an infant seat. It can be perminant if left untreated.

Another problem says Dr. Jeanne Ohm, executive coordinator of the International Chiropractic Pediatric Association is that, “many infants in strollers or car seats constantly tilt their heads to one side or the other. That’s a good indication that their upper cervical spine is out of alignment,” says Ohm. “Short periods spent in a car seat are fine, but “keeping them in that position where it’s easiest for their head just to fall off to the side—that leads to further spinal stress later on in life.” Ohm prefers to see parents carry infants in their arms and use different types of carriers. “Offering a variety of carriers supports correct postural development for the child.”

When I was pregnant with my first child I injured my back and was in physical therapy for a few months. The therapist had me go over the best ways to not injure my back when carrying the infant car seat. How to hold my wrist, where to position the carrier, how to put a knee in the car first before placing the seat in or out of the car to prevent possible strain. The funny thing for me is it was never suggested to simply leave the car seat in the car and hold the baby. Every time now that I see a mom bent sideways lugging a baby in an infant seat I am reminded of just how crazy it really is. Then when in the store I see a mom with a new baby in an infant seat locked to the top of the stroller, I wonder why more moms don’t think how silly it looks to have this huge bulky contraption that you are lugging around to carry your 10lb baby. Don’t get me wrong, I have been there myself, With my first we had the car seat stroller combo all 100lbs of it that we pushed with our little one proudly. When a friend later introduced me to baby carriers and baby slings much of that changed for my other children. But still how common it is to see babies that, except to get their diaper changed spend a majority of their time in these seats.

So now pregnant with my fourth child I am determined to make a change. I am going to challenge myself to a 30 day time frame to start to leave my car seat in the car. I know this will be hard with other children around, or if the baby falls alseep in the car and I would like to keep them asleep, but I think the benefits will outweigh those issues. Among the biggest benefit is the bonding that will take place with me instead of the seat. They have actually done studies to prove this, (if it didn’t seem obvious.) Researchers at Columbia University gave either a baby seat or a soft, wearable infant carrier to mothers of low socioeconomic status who had recently given birth. After 13 months, the researchers found that the babies who had been transported in wearable carriers were significantly more likely to demonstrate a strong attachment to their mothers. (1)

The more I read about the importance of attachment and parental bonding this seems like the least I can do. Help my back, and my babies development, all by not carrying around a bulky car seat? Why not? So why don’t you join me? Try for 30 days leaving it in the car. If you forget or have a crazy day, don’t give up, life happens. But I have a feeling after the 30 days are up, maybe you won’t go back. Good Luck!!

1.E. Anisfeld et al., “Does Infant Carrying Promote Attachment? An Experimental Study of the Effects of Increased Physical Contact on the Development of Attachment,” Child Development 61, no. 5 (Oct 1990): 1617-1627.

Frogmama’s New Addition:)

May 15th, 2009

I got a special mothers day surprise:) Welcome to our new little one:)

Zachariah Joel
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05/10/09 9:35am

7lbs 1 oz

20 1/4 inches long

and lots of dark hair:)

For those who want the details:

I was having contractions every 2 minutes all night and baby was still breech so  I had a cesarian that morning.  It really wasn’t as bad as I had imagined it and the nurses were very helpful and even “bent” a few rules to allow me to hold my baby while still in the recovery room. He is doing very well and nursing like a champ.  I am feeling as well as can be expected, I would definatly prefer a vag delivery to this any day:) It is a really strange feeling still on my tummy from them cutting the nerves it is still all tingley. Trying to take it easy as much as possibly and enjoy these special days with out new little one. Thank you everyone for your prayers we truely are blessed to have him.
Picture of me a little drugged still:)
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A Pouch Sling and Wrap Story

February 25th, 2009

My babywearing story so far….By Dana

While I was pregnant with my daughter I learned about babywearing and it benefits. I got very excited and began purchasing carriers in expectation of her arrival. I got a few pouch slings, a couple of rings slings, a Mei Tai and a Stretchy wrap.

A few days after Natalie was born, I asked my doula to demonstrate how to wear her in the sling and pouch. All of those hours a reasearch came together in a few minutes of hands-on learning. It clicked and for the first months of her life, Natalie lived in a pouch. We used it to soothe her in the house and when we were out walking or shopping. I got the hang of the ring sling by the time she was two months old and we still use them all of the time. I still keep the pouch folded in the very bottom of the diaper bag for emergencies.

The one carrier that did not seem to work was the stretchy wrap. Natalie was born in July and I think the heat worked against my efforts to learn to wrap. I was hot and sweaty and she seemed miserable as well, so I gave on wrapping. Once when Natalie was about 5 months old I decided to use the wrap to try to soothe her while teething. I managed a decent cross carry and it was like magic. My cranky, angry, teething, tired munchkin was snoring within minutes. I was hooked on wrapping after that.

I did some research and decided to get a couple of woven wraps, since they are very supportive and Natalie was already about 19lbs. I got a Didymos and a Storchenweige Leo The Leo is my favorite carrier hands down. I love how supportive it feels. After a month of wrapping I can get my daughter on my back in a ruck easily and she is always happy there. She still fusses sometimes in the ring slings but never on my back. This carry allows my to do household chores like laundry and cooking, even when Natalie won’t let me out of her sight. I use front carries for putting her down for naps and this has been a livesaver for me. The Storch has saved my sanity during this very difficult teething period.

A Beco Butterfly Story

February 23rd, 2009

Written by Mari

As a busy mom for three girls under the age of three (two of which are twin babies), I NEED to be hands-free! I don’t know what I’d do if I wasn’t able to strap a fussing baby onto my back! Certainly, I could never get anything done around the house! Even using a double stroller when we go out means only two of the kiddies are “contained”, so usually one of my year old babies ends up being carried. The Beco Butterfly was the PERFECT solution for me. As a mom who was relatively new to babywearing, the inner harness allowed me to strap in my baby and put her one my back all by myself. My husband prefers to front carry and is partial to the more gender-neutral prints. Best of all, I can also carry my 3.5 year old daughter on my back for a REALLY long time, without any back pain, because preschoolers need “carry-me-mommy” time too. :)

A Maya Wrap Ring Sling Story

February 14th, 2009

Wearing my baby From Megan McNair

My first pregnancy was a surprise to me. I managed to maintain my state of shock for almost an entire nine months, leaving my best friend (and also my doula) to do all of the ‘what you’ll need’ planning. In my mind, all I would need was a breast and a way to keep my baby close. There are a few things I never doubted before I became a parent- that I would nurse and that I would want my baby to be with me. I never thought to ready a nursery, purchase a stroller, or invest in baby gadgets.

But I clearly remember the first time I noticed a woman wearing her baby in a sling. I made a beeline to her to find out what it was and where I could purchase it. The Maya Wrap Sling became one of my only ‘must have before baby comes’ items. I skipped my birth preparation classes, but I watched the Maya DVD several times before the baby came.

When I held my tiny, squishy newborn I wondered how on earth I’d ever get her comfortable in the sling. But several days after she was born, I wanted to get out and pick blackberries. Out came the DVD and after 30 minutes of hard work, baby girl was in the sling and I was out the door. It was a feeling of success.

I’ll never forget what it was like to go on that first adventure with her so comfy, so close. Even better was when I realized I could nurse her- hands free!! My little girl grew up in her Maya Wrap. She went on walks with me, attended swim practice on a regular basis (I’m a coach), went to parties,  ballgames, nursed, napped and cuddled. That sling took us both through the first two years together. To me, it represented how I wanted to parent- keeping my baby close, but without giving up the things I love. To Cecilia, it was a safe place to be, a place to relax, close to mom. No matter what was going on around us, she was happy in her sling.


An Angelpack story

February 14th, 2009

from Nicole Bertrand

I didn’t really get into babywearing until I had my 3rd baby. I used a padded ring sling a few times when my oldest was a baby, but I never learned how to use it the right way. With my second baby, I just didn’t bother to try. During my pregnancy with my 3rd baby, I was lead to thebabywearer.com by a friend and I got hooked. The first carrier I bought was a Maya Ring Sling. It was all I used for the first 4 months, but me and my son were both getting tired of it. My shoulder would hurt and he wasn’t as content in it. The same friend that lead me to babywearing in the first place knew I was looking for change and sold me an Angelpack LX Production Sample. It was love at first wear!

We started out in a front carry and then, with the help of a Frogmama youtube video and the chest strap we bought from frogmama.com, we attempted the back carry. Soon after that, my son, who was 5 months old and about 14lbs at this point, was sick for a solid month — in the hospital and everything. All he wanted throughout this was to be close to me. Our Angelpack saved us! He slept comfortably in it, I was comfortable for hours with him in it, and I could still get cooking and cleaning done AND care for my older two children. I can do almost anything with my son in the Angelpack. I would recommend it to anybody!!