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A Pouch Sling and Wrap Story

Wednesday, February 25th, 2009

My babywearing story so far….By Dana

While I was pregnant with my daughter I learned about babywearing and it benefits. I got very excited and began purchasing carriers in expectation of her arrival. I got a few pouch slings, a couple of rings slings, a Mei Tai and a Stretchy wrap.

A few days after Natalie was born, I asked my doula to demonstrate how to wear her in the sling and pouch. All of those hours a reasearch came together in a few minutes of hands-on learning. It clicked and for the first months of her life, Natalie lived in a pouch. We used it to soothe her in the house and when we were out walking or shopping. I got the hang of the ring sling by the time she was two months old and we still use them all of the time. I still keep the pouch folded in the very bottom of the diaper bag for emergencies.

The one carrier that did not seem to work was the stretchy wrap. Natalie was born in July and I think the heat worked against my efforts to learn to wrap. I was hot and sweaty and she seemed miserable as well, so I gave on wrapping. Once when Natalie was about 5 months old I decided to use the wrap to try to soothe her while teething. I managed a decent cross carry and it was like magic. My cranky, angry, teething, tired munchkin was snoring within minutes. I was hooked on wrapping after that.

I did some research and decided to get a couple of woven wraps, since they are very supportive and Natalie was already about 19lbs. I got a Didymos and a Storchenweige Leo The Leo is my favorite carrier hands down. I love how supportive it feels. After a month of wrapping I can get my daughter on my back in a ruck easily and she is always happy there. She still fusses sometimes in the ring slings but never on my back. This carry allows my to do household chores like laundry and cooking, even when Natalie won’t let me out of her sight. I use front carries for putting her down for naps and this has been a livesaver for me. The Storch has saved my sanity during this very difficult teething period.

A Beco Butterfly Story

Monday, February 23rd, 2009

Written by Mari

As a busy mom for three girls under the age of three (two of which are twin babies), I NEED to be hands-free! I don’t know what I’d do if I wasn’t able to strap a fussing baby onto my back! Certainly, I could never get anything done around the house! Even using a double stroller when we go out means only two of the kiddies are “contained”, so usually one of my year old babies ends up being carried. The Beco Butterfly was the PERFECT solution for me. As a mom who was relatively new to babywearing, the inner harness allowed me to strap in my baby and put her one my back all by myself. My husband prefers to front carry and is partial to the more gender-neutral prints. Best of all, I can also carry my 3.5 year old daughter on my back for a REALLY long time, without any back pain, because preschoolers need “carry-me-mommy” time too. :)

A Maya Wrap Ring Sling Story

Saturday, February 14th, 2009

Wearing my baby From Megan McNair

My first pregnancy was a surprise to me. I managed to maintain my state of shock for almost an entire nine months, leaving my best friend (and also my doula) to do all of the ‘what you’ll need’ planning. In my mind, all I would need was a breast and a way to keep my baby close. There are a few things I never doubted before I became a parent- that I would nurse and that I would want my baby to be with me. I never thought to ready a nursery, purchase a stroller, or invest in baby gadgets.

But I clearly remember the first time I noticed a woman wearing her baby in a sling. I made a beeline to her to find out what it was and where I could purchase it. The Maya Wrap Sling became one of my only ‘must have before baby comes’ items. I skipped my birth preparation classes, but I watched the Maya DVD several times before the baby came.

When I held my tiny, squishy newborn I wondered how on earth I’d ever get her comfortable in the sling. But several days after she was born, I wanted to get out and pick blackberries. Out came the DVD and after 30 minutes of hard work, baby girl was in the sling and I was out the door. It was a feeling of success.

I’ll never forget what it was like to go on that first adventure with her so comfy, so close. Even better was when I realized I could nurse her- hands free!! My little girl grew up in her Maya Wrap. She went on walks with me, attended swim practice on a regular basis (I’m a coach), went to parties,  ballgames, nursed, napped and cuddled. That sling took us both through the first two years together. To me, it represented how I wanted to parent- keeping my baby close, but without giving up the things I love. To Cecilia, it was a safe place to be, a place to relax, close to mom. No matter what was going on around us, she was happy in her sling.


An Angelpack story

Saturday, February 14th, 2009

from Nicole Bertrand

I didn’t really get into babywearing until I had my 3rd baby. I used a padded ring sling a few times when my oldest was a baby, but I never learned how to use it the right way. With my second baby, I just didn’t bother to try. During my pregnancy with my 3rd baby, I was lead to thebabywearer.com by a friend and I got hooked. The first carrier I bought was a Maya Ring Sling. It was all I used for the first 4 months, but me and my son were both getting tired of it. My shoulder would hurt and he wasn’t as content in it. The same friend that lead me to babywearing in the first place knew I was looking for change and sold me an Angelpack LX Production Sample. It was love at first wear!

We started out in a front carry and then, with the help of a Frogmama youtube video and the chest strap we bought from frogmama.com, we attempted the back carry. Soon after that, my son, who was 5 months old and about 14lbs at this point, was sick for a solid month — in the hospital and everything. All he wanted throughout this was to be close to me. Our Angelpack saved us! He slept comfortably in it, I was comfortable for hours with him in it, and I could still get cooking and cleaning done AND care for my older two children. I can do almost anything with my son in the Angelpack. I would recommend it to anybody!!

One stretchy wrap story

Saturday, February 14th, 2009

From Robin

I was so excited to be pregnant, and had seen women wearing their babies in cute little front packs. I thought I might take my baby for walks in one of those, and bought one in preparation. I saw that the warning on the label said not to use the carrier for a baby under eight pounds. No problem! I thought…I was an 8 lb baby, so was my husband, and so was my nephew. I’ll be set!

Then I delivered my beautiful, vocal, 6 lb 10 oz baby. And she lost 7 oz just after birth.

I was panicking. She wanted to be held all the time. She howled when she wasn’t. I couldn’t get a meal, because I had both hands full. I couldn’t read a book, type on the computer, BRUSH MY HAIR, and all because I had delivered a “holdy” baby who wouldn’t take no for an answer. And she was far too small for the carrier I bought. What to do! Then I remembered meeting someone with a long stretchy wrap carrier in Costco. He said he had used it because his little one had been a preemie, born at 5 lbs, and it was the only carrier she’d fit into.

I went on a search, and found a carrier like the one he had, a stretchy wrap. I was so happy to find it. I bought it in a flash, and rushed home with it. When I got it home and looked at it though, it seemed rather….well, LONG. This bad boy was 18 feet of jersey knit cotton. Would this work? I studied the booklet it came with, watched a video on the internet and then wound it around me like it said to do. I slid my baby in according to the instructions and…my baby cuddled into me! And closed her eyes! AND WENT TO SLEEP!

I had just found baby heaven. Thanks to that wrap, I was able to get meals without someone coming to hold the baby. I could leave the house & go for walks. The way it was wrapped was easy once you’ve tried it once or twice, and so supportive that my baby seemed weightless.And best of all, I could give my baby what she wanted & needed (to be held), and still have some freedom myself. My baby came to view the wrap as her ’safe & cozy’ place. She liked to sleep there, and hang out when she was awake too. It was a wonderfully comfortable way to carry her, and I’m so glad I met that man in Costco.

Welcome to the new Frogmama Blog!!

Saturday, February 14th, 2009

We hope you like the changes we are making. Please feel free to leave comments or email with any suggestions- Thanks! So far we are compiling a variety of carrier stories to help moms in choosing what is right for them. If you have ideas for what you would like to see please let us know!